Inspiration
How often do you look in the mirror and think ‘wow’ I look good today, or even give yourself a simple compliment. If you are femaie, I would guess your answer is ‘never’ or ‘rarely’.
It is more likely that you look in the mirror, pull a face and make a derisory comment, criticising even a small detail of your appearance – giving your unconscious mind the message that you are looking awful today, with the knock on consequences of this silent throw-away comment on your self esteem.
Have you any idea how destructive this behaviour is and how it impacts every aspect of your life? Consider how this simple negative act reflects into your mood and your behaviour, your relationships and your possibilities.
If you are making these comments every time you use the bathroom or catch a glimpse of your reflection in a mirror or shop window, how much self criticism do you have to live with daily?
To take this a step further, some ladies barely glance at the mirror and with an ugly grimace, kind of dismiss themselves. They don’t even realise they are doing it I see this over and over again in fitting rooms when I am working with clients.
These negative habits have got to stop if you are ever to feel good about your style.
You know the old saying ‘if you can’t say something good, say nothing at all’. This is one of the first things I teach my clients. If we focus on even one good aspect of our appearance, give ourselves a little compliment such as ‘this colour suits me’ or I notice my style improving’, we will feel completely differently about ourselves and this will lift our spirits. As we begin to make peace with how we look, an inner confidence builds and this radiates outwards, giving us a positive glow that you can’t buy in any shop or get from any beauty product.
Spend a few hours with me for some down to earth style inspiration. I will point out the positive aspects of your style and you can focus on these from now on as you learn to be your most stylish you.
If we can’t get to meet, let’s work together on the phone or on line. My virtual styling is getting great results for people too. Just phone me on: 086 8077 123 or email me at: lizhickeystyle@gmail.com.